Monday, 22 December 2025

From The Crib To Cross - An Advent Reflection

Advent is a season of beginnings that already point toward endings. 

The gentle glow of the crib is never far from the looming shadow of the cross. 

From the very first candle we light, from the first antiphon we sing, something in our hearts knows that this Child's birth will not be an escape from suffering but the entrance of God into the very heart of it.

This early part of Advent invites us into a holy tension – the tenderness of Bethlehem intertwined with the sacrifice of Calvary. We look at the Child wrapped in swaddling clothes and somehow sense that those small, fragile hands will one day be stretched wide in surrender. We listen to the hush of angels and cannot forget that one day, darkness will cover the earth at the hour of His death.

And yet, this tension is not meant to sadden us. It is meant to awaken us. To remind us that love, real love, comes not only in the softness of a cradle but also in the strength of a cross. Advent holds them together for us – the beginning that already reveals the mission, the Child who was born to save, the Word made flesh who came to lay that flesh down.

The crib that already declares the cross

The Gospels offer a subtle but unmistakable truth: 
Christ was born in order to die. From the first chapter of salvation history, the Messiah is already the Lamb. Even before His public ministry, even before His miracles, even before His passion, the mission is written into the mystery of His birth.

Saint Augustine once said, "The very wood of the cradle foreshadows the wood of the cross."

The poverty of Bethlehem is a quiet prophecy of the sacrifice that awaits.

In the Gospel of Luke, we read:
"For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, who is Christ the Lord." (Luke 2:11)

The angels do not merely announce a birth. They announce a Saviour – which means the cross is already in view.

Saint Athanasius goes even further: "He became what we are, that He might make us what He is."

The Incarnation was not sentiment. 

It was rescue

Every breath the Christ Child took was a step toward the offering of His life.

Advent is not only about waiting – it is about remembering why He came

Advent is a season of longing, certainly – longing for light, longing for redemption, longing for the nearness of God. But Advent also reminds us why God draws near: to redeem a world that could not save itself.

Saint Paul says it plainly:
"God shows His love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8)

The love revealed in Bethlehem is the same love poured out at Calvary.

The swaddling cloths are the first sign of the burial cloths.
The manger is the first altar on which He is laid.

This is why the Church, in her wisdom, invites us to reflect not only on Christ's birth but on Christ's mission. Advent is a season of joyful awe, but it is also a season of sober recognition: He came because we needed saving.

And that salvation did not come cheaply.

The humility that leads Him from cradle to sacrifice

The path from crib to cross is paved with humility. From the moment of His conception, Christ chooses littleness.

He chooses a poor village.

He chooses a hidden life.

He chooses obscurity, hunger, vulnerability, the daily aches of human existence.

Saint Bernard of Clairvaux reminds us:
"God humbled Himself that we might be exalted. He became poor that we might become rich."

What begins in the humility of Bethlehem culminates in the humility of Calvary, where Christ surrenders everything, withholding nothing. In the early days of Advent, we are invited to marvel at this downward movement of divine love.

This is not a sentimental God.
This is a self – emptying God.
A God who descends all the way into our humanity that He may lift us into His glory.

Three Scriptures that illuminate the journey from crib to cross

1. Isaiah 9:6 – The Child who carries the government upon His shoulders

"For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government will be upon his shoulder."

From the opening prophecy, the Child is already King, already burdened with the weight of saving the world. His shoulders that carried the hopes of Israel in infancy will one day carry the crossbeam up the hill of Calvary.

2. Philippians 2:6 – 8 – The great descent

Saint Paul reveals the heart of Advent:
"Though He was in the form of God, He did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself… becoming obedient unto death, even death on a cross."

The self – emptying that begins in Mary's womb continues through every moment of Christ's life, culminating in His total surrender.

3. John 1:14 – The Word became flesh

"And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us."

The flesh He takes on is the flesh He will offer. The Incarnation is the opening act of the Passion. The Child born in the night is the Lamb who will be slain.

What Advent asks of us: to walk the same descending road

Advent is a season of preparation, but not simply for Christmas festivities. It is preparation for humility, sacrifice, and surrender. The Christ Child grows, and we must grow with Him. The Christ Child empties Himself, and we are invited to do the same. The Christ Child moves toward the cross, and we must be willing to follow.

Saint Thérèse of Lisieux understood this paradoxical path of smallness.

She said, "To love is to give everything, and to give oneself."

This is the lesson of Advent:
The one who lay in the manger will give everything.

And we are called to imitate Him, even in small ways:
  • forgiving the old wound
  • choosing patience in the moment of irritation
  • letting go of pride
  • giving generously
  • allowing Christ to reshape our lives
The road from crib to cross is the road of discipleship.

Mary shows us how to hold both the joy and the sorrow

No one knew better than Mary that the beginning of Christ's life already contained the seeds of His sacrifice.

Simeon's prophecy made that clear when he said:
"A sword will pierce your own soul also." (Luke 2:35)

Mary teaches us to treasure the joys of Christ's birth without denying the truth of His mission. Her heart holds both wonder and ache.

This is the heart Advent invites us to cultivate – a heart that can:
  • rejoice at the nearness of God
  • tremble at the cost of our salvation
  • ponder all these things with reverence
  • trust God's plan even when it wounds
Mary stands at the crib.
Mary stands at the cross.
And she shows us how to prepare our hearts for both.

The cross already shines through the light of Advent

Advent is a sunrise more than it is a soft glow. It breaks into darkness with a promise that will not be fulfilled in a stable but on a hill. The Child who comes will conquer death by passing through it. He will overcome evil not by avoiding suffering but by bearing it.

Saint John Chrysostom wrote,
"I adore the child, but I worship the one who is God; I marvel at the birth, but I venerate the sacrifice."

The Church does not ask us to choose between crib and cross.

She asks us to contemplate both – together.

For Advent is not sentimental.  Advent is revolutionary.

Advent proclaims that God Himself entered time to be broken open for us.

What this early Advent moment calls us to do

As we light the candles, as we hear the prophecies, as we draw nearer to Christmas, the Church asks us to do three things:

1. Return to humility

Christ began in humility, and we must begin there too.
No grace enters a proud heart.

2. Embrace repentance

The Child who comes is the Lamb who takes away sin.
Our preparation for His coming is confession, honesty, surrender.

3. Live with a cross – shaped love

The love born in Bethlehem is a cruciform love.
It asks patience, generosity, forgiveness, and sacrifice from us.

If we want to receive Christ at the crib, we must be willing to follow Him to the cross.

Christ's birth makes sense only in the light of His death

We do not diminish the joy of Christmas by remembering the cross.

We deepen it.

For the love that entered the world in a stable did not remain soft and small.
It grew.
It suffered.
It offered itself completely.

And because of that love, we are saved.

This is the heart of Advent:
The Child who comes is the Saviour who dies.
The crib opens the way to the cross.
And the cross opens the way to eternal life.

A prayer for all who read this blog post and for all who never will

Holy Lord,
As we enter this sacred season of Advent, turn our hearts toward the mystery of Your love – the love that began in the humility of the crib and was fulfilled in the sacrifice of the cross. Teach us to prepare well, to return to humility, to embrace repentance, and to follow Christ with courage.
Pour out Your grace upon every soul who reads these words and upon every soul who never will.
May we behold the Child with wonder, embrace the cross with trust, and walk in the hope that Your love never ends.
Amen.

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